Spiritual Guidance and the Dignity of Women

Phoenix Spiritual Direction Center Rev. Kelly Murphy Mason will be speaking as a mentor for the Apprenticeship Training Program at the 2023 Parliament of the World's Religions in Chicago this summer. Dr. Mason was the guest speaker for the “Dignity of Women” program track, which recognizes women and girls as a core constituency around the world. In fact, the global ethic promoted by the Parliament recognizes that establishing gender equality is an essential part of protecting universal human rights.

As a Member of Parliament, Dr. Mason supports the usefulness of global ethics in promoting women’s participation and leadership in spiritual and religious communities. A diverse audience including Jewish, Buddhist, Catholic, Protestant and interfaith women attended Dr. Mason’s presentation on August 18, 2023, “Being As Fully Yourself as Possible: Spiritual Direction for Women’s Liberation and Empowerment Across Traditions.”

Feminist Perspectives on Spiritual Direction

Dr. Mason called on those currently providing various forms of spiritual care to women in their respective traditions to be mindful of the harmful effects of misogyny, sexism, patriarchy, and male chauvinism, especially as these are enshrined in traditional religious teachings and testimonies. Dr. Mason also called on people to be mindful of opportunities for the “dignification and deification of women around the world” by adopting a feminist perspective, and to cooperate in “promoting midwifery and motherhood in spiritual contexts.” She included materials from feminist theologians, denominational resolutions, spiritual authors, singer-songwriters, and women mystics in her discussion, and encouraged the use of “mirroring/magnifying” and “echoing/amplifying” as approaches to working with women who are pursuing their own spiritual growth.

Women especially need support and affirmation

According to Dr. Mason, contemporary spiritual directors increasingly see themselves as “serving spiritual integration, personal development, and personal evolution” by “welcoming multi-religious, multi-spiritual, and dynamic identities” and remaining intentionally non-prescriptive yet attentively provocative in their work with spiritual leaders who seek personal counseling. With women in particular, directors need to act in ways that are “essentially supportive and as affirming as possible,” she declared in her presentation. She called for greater sensitivity to women’s commonly experienced experiences of being silenced, belittled, erased, and not believed. Possible fixes, she explained, include helping women “situate themselves within sacred narratives” in spiritual communities and religious traditions, and then “trust the authority of their own voices and practice advocacy for themselves.”

Dr. Mason currently serves as a mentor to apprentice spiritual directors at the Phoenix Spiritual Direction Center and as a community minister of Spiritual Direction at Arlington Street Church in Boston, Massachusetts (about.me/kellymurphymason). Dr. Mason has dedicated his varied career to marshalling spiritual and religious resources to support greater human flourishing and has been a consultant to faith communities for nearly 20 years (www.kellymurphymason.com). He argues that spiritual direction, with its psychological and religious education, is particularly useful in the contemporary context and believes that the evolving field of spiritual direction has special potential to assist individuals who feel lacking in certain respects from organized religion. Dr. Mason also co-chairs the Spirituality & Flourishing Interest Group within the Harvard Flourishing Network (hfh.fas.harvard.edu/spirituality-flourishing-interest-group-sfig), which she first convened in 2022. She has been blogging on the subject of “What Heals Our Souls” at TheReverendDr.com for over 10 years.

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